Divorce and ex won't cooperate - Short Sale Superstars2024-03-29T05:58:25Zhttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/forum/topics/divorce-and-ex-won-t-cooperate?commentId=3468065%3AComment%3A324997&x=1&feed=yes&xn_auth=noThe husband didn't show up at…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-22:3468065:Comment:3249972013-07-22T14:53:07.541ZShari Phttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/ShariPosey
<p>The husband didn't show up at any of the court dates and didn't respond to any orders so the judge removed him from title. It was a long process but that was the result.</p>
<p>The husband didn't show up at any of the court dates and didn't respond to any orders so the judge removed him from title. It was a long process but that was the result.</p> During the divorce process th…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-22:3468065:Comment:3248812013-07-22T00:18:27.756ZKerryAnn Douglashttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/KerryAnnDouglas
<p>During the divorce process the parties (at least in Wisconsin) need to complete a financial disclosure statement. Have the parties completed it? If so, use that.</p>
<p>During the divorce process the parties (at least in Wisconsin) need to complete a financial disclosure statement. Have the parties completed it? If so, use that.</p> Unfortunately she will have t…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-21:3468065:Comment:3248202013-07-21T16:33:48.690ZCynthia Robbinshttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/CynthiaRobbins
<p>Unfortunately she will have to go back to court and have the judge find him in contempt and ask to have him put in jail. I know that sounds a bit over the top but when ex's go rogue like that you don't have a lot of choices.</p>
<p>Unfortunately she will have to go back to court and have the judge find him in contempt and ask to have him put in jail. I know that sounds a bit over the top but when ex's go rogue like that you don't have a lot of choices.</p> I am going through this right…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-21:3468065:Comment:3248092013-07-21T15:38:02.755ZShari Phttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/ShariPosey
<p>I am going through this right now. First step was the wife asked if the lenders if they would do a short sale without the husband's information or participation. Both said yes if she could get him off title. The wife went to court and the judge removed the husband from title and now both lenders have committed to proceeding even though he's on the loan. (Neither lender has approved it yet though.)</p>
<p>I am going through this right now. First step was the wife asked if the lenders if they would do a short sale without the husband's information or participation. Both said yes if she could get him off title. The wife went to court and the judge removed the husband from title and now both lenders have committed to proceeding even though he's on the loan. (Neither lender has approved it yet though.)</p> Do you know if the husband si…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-21:3468065:Comment:3244662013-07-21T03:28:05.393ZSarah Eakeshttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/SarahEakes
<p>Do you know if the husband signed the SunTrust note? If he did not, then I don't see how they can require his financials. Have you tried requesting an escalation at SunTrust? Another idea is to go back to the divorce attorneys - have the wife's contact the husband's divorce attorney to discuss this situation. If the husband truly did sign the note, he needs to understand a short sale will hurt his credit less than a foreclosure - perhaps he just needs to hear it from an attorney he…</p>
<p>Do you know if the husband signed the SunTrust note? If he did not, then I don't see how they can require his financials. Have you tried requesting an escalation at SunTrust? Another idea is to go back to the divorce attorneys - have the wife's contact the husband's divorce attorney to discuss this situation. If the husband truly did sign the note, he needs to understand a short sale will hurt his credit less than a foreclosure - perhaps he just needs to hear it from an attorney he 'trusts' (his own). </p> I had a similar situation and…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-18:3468065:Comment:3238612013-07-18T12:54:30.052ZJeff Paynehttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/JeffPayne
<p>I had a similar situation and the ex wife had no idea where the ex husband was, she had to sign an affidavit stating his whereabouts were unknown</p>
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<p>I had a similar situation and the ex wife had no idea where the ex husband was, she had to sign an affidavit stating his whereabouts were unknown</p>
<p></p> Also, after 3+ yearsof no mor…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-18:3468065:Comment:3238482013-07-18T04:12:59.624ZNorene Williamshttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/NoreneWilliams
<p>Also, after 3+ yearsof no mortgage payments the first, BOA, has not even started foreclosure proceedings.</p>
<p>Also, after 3+ yearsof no mortgage payments the first, BOA, has not even started foreclosure proceedings.</p> I have known that I need to m…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-18:3468065:Comment:3237422013-07-18T04:11:25.967ZNorene Williamshttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/NoreneWilliams
<p>I have known that I need to move on this for some time. The problem is that the wife is a very good friend of mine and I have told her it probably won't happen but I hate to just leave her high and dry. It was quit claimed to her and my feeling is that if he won't cooperate with the short sale is that they should allow the short sale and go after him for the balance. This is Florida so the can still go after him. The problem is that the first was willing to work with us but the second…</p>
<p>I have known that I need to move on this for some time. The problem is that the wife is a very good friend of mine and I have told her it probably won't happen but I hate to just leave her high and dry. It was quit claimed to her and my feeling is that if he won't cooperate with the short sale is that they should allow the short sale and go after him for the balance. This is Florida so the can still go after him. The problem is that the first was willing to work with us but the second isn't. Makes no sense since now it will just go to foreclosure.</p> Gotcha, they COULDtag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-17:3468065:Comment:3236762013-07-17T16:35:00.553ZJeff Paynehttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/JeffPayne
<p>Gotcha, they <em><strong>COULD</strong></em></p>
<p>Gotcha, they <em><strong>COULD</strong></em></p> Ron, the way I read this is t…tag:shortsalesuperstars.com,2013-07-17:3468065:Comment:3238292013-07-17T15:54:17.655ZJeff Paynehttp://shortsalesuperstars.com/profile/JeffPayne
<p>Ron, the way I read this is that the non cooperating spouse is on the note and Suntrust will not process the short sale request without that spouses financials. Am I missing something?</p>
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<p>Ron, the way I read this is that the non cooperating spouse is on the note and Suntrust will not process the short sale request without that spouses financials. Am I missing something?</p>
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